Married lesbian surfers & Foster mums. Trying to live plasticfree, ethically & with purpose in our eco house

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We are Jessi and Millie. Two married lesbian surfers living in our “eco shed” on Sydney’s Northern Beaches, with our pack of rescue animals.

Our blog documents our married life as we grow our family and try to live as ethically and sustainably as we can.

We talk frankly about sexuality, women’s health, love and relationships.

Lesbian couple in embrace
Jessi girl with tattoos in bikini


You will find me floating in the ocean on my surfboard. My dogs are my children, my cats are nice I guess. I write about eco friendly products and travel locations. Always on the hunt for perfect barrels. I want more tattoos…


I used to have a really strong London accent, after 5 years in Australia I now sound a bit confused.

I love being barefoot… as much as I dislike brushing my hair.

A part time vegan & full time feminist. I will tell you exactly how it is and write about Women’s Health, Sustainability and Business.

millie girl on a beach walking

Australian Marriage Equality

Having been heavily involved with Australia’s marriage equality YES campaign, we are finally realising our dream of getting married in Feb 2019.

Our instagram @jessi_and_millie, and subsequently this blog was born from the response we received during the campaign – both positive and negative.

We realised that there is still a long way to go in order to normalise same sex relationships, and if we can’t change the world then at least we can influence the tiny bit around us.

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Jessi and Millie two girls kissing at gay pride wearing yes shirts


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